Showing posts with label Gazes at life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gazes at life. Show all posts

Thursday, 21 November 2019

Ted Talk by Shannon Lee




Our how is the expression of our why in every what, whether we are aware of it or not. 
 
Life is a process. It's a means. We determine who we are by what we do.

In that sense, every moment gives us an opportunity to contribute to the totality of our existential meaning.

Usually, It is said that the whole is greater than the parts that make up the whole.

But after listening to her talk, I felt that the parts that make up the whole is greater than the whole.

Because if at all you have something under your control now that is THIS moment.


 

Saturday, 12 October 2019

Going Tough on Ourselves


A wonderful write-up on getting tough on the tough going.. 


https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-train-my-subconscious-brain/answer/Michael-J-Lukiman?ch=3&share=99ad8731&srid=oxm5


And here comes the Hercules... 






Thursday, 21 March 2019

Ted Talk by Mariana Atencio







There our differences that simply suck. And it is hard to find Positive in them. But you can't let those differences define you.


Being able to reimagine yourself beyond what other people say - that is the toughest task of all. But also the most beautiful. 



Sometimes the society tells us or we tell ourselves that we don't fit the mould.
You see, we all come to this world in a body, people with physical or neurological difficulties, environmentally impacted communities, immigrants, boys, girls, boys who want to dress as girls, girls with veils, women who have been sexually assaulted, athletes who bend their knee as a sign of protest, black, white, Asian, Native American, my sister, you or me — we all want what everyone wants: to dream and to achieve.
Nobody has a claim on the word normal. We are all different, we are all quirky and unique and that is what makes us wonderfully human.







Monday, 31 December 2018

Dr.Jitendhra Collections

1. How to have a happy attitude always

1.Begin any action you do with an attitude that you can do it your unmindful of the hurdles you are going to face.

2. Distance yourself from people, who discourage you from accomplishing your goals

3. Understand that rejection and failure is a very normal and common thing.

Be aware that you yourself rejected four mobiles to pick a 5th mobile of your choice.

4. Aim for constant improvement; not for perfection

5. First be thankful for what you have. Add value to the things that you have. Be worthy for your existing fortunes. If not your existing fortunes will question what have you done for me, to expect more.

6. Have confident and positive conversations within yourself

7. Present moment is enormous. Everyday offers an opportunity to change your life.

However life may appear to be difficult, there is always something you can try and succeed at
- Stephen Hawking


2. How to be foccussed?




3. Stages in getting Expertise

a. Acquiring interest ( Should not be out of  "Shinning apple syndrome")

b. Acquiring knowledge ( Getting exposed to the know-how. This is just tip of the ice-berg)

c. Developing skill (This is the trickiest part. It is repeated practice of knowledge and internalizing the knowledge through repeated practice. Here is where most people give-up)

d. Exhibit (Beat the syndrome of getting frustrated with practice by showcasing and staging what you have learnt in a forum that could motivate you to learn further)


4. You are not the centre of the world




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annotationDo things for our own happiness and for your own curiosity and passion

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annotationDhoni's finisher six in 2011- His thought process would have been: -The ball appeared it could be a hit for a six. Hence I dared and hit. It worked out. It was nothing like a do or die moment

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Sunday, 25 February 2018

Wise Words- 4


Two impressive and thought-provoking dialogues from the movie “Vikram Vedha”

·      Dei… Vidhi, vidhi nu aayiram thadavai sollitiru.. Life chance-a eduthutu vandhu “sedhu.. indha pidinu kaila kodukadhu”. Unnaku onnu thevaina, adhukaga try panama irukradhudhan thappu.


·   Eppayum prachanai-na prachanai ennanu paarkadha.. Prachanaikaana kaaranam ennanu paaru.



Wise Words- 3




·             Have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow know what you truly want to become

·         Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking.

·         Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.

·             If you don’t love something, you’re not going to go the extra mile, work the extra weekend, challenge the status quo as much










Tuesday, 20 February 2018

TED Talk by Sam Berns



Sampson Gordon "Sam" Berns (October 23, 1996 – January 10, 2014) was an American teen who had progeria and helped raise awareness about the disease. He was the subject of the HBO documentary Life According to Sam, which was first screened in January 2013. He died one year later, after appearing in a TEDx Talks video titled "My philosophy for a happy life."



Be Ok with what you can't do (now), because there is so much you can do (now)
  

Saturday, 17 February 2018

Sunday, 31 December 2017

Steve Job's Stanford Commence Speech


Finest lines
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, some day you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "no" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything – all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure – these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

Death is very likely the single best invention of life. It is life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but some day not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.  Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And, most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.

Saturday, 22 July 2017

நட்பு எப்படி உடைகிறது - காரணங்கள்.

Credit: Whatsapp

இரண்டு நண்பர்களில் ஒருவர், மற்றொருவர் வேலைப்பளுவில் (பிசியாக) இருக்கிறார் என்று நினைக்கலாம்.
எனவே அவரை தொடர்பு கொண்டு பேசினால் அது அவருக்கு தொந்தரவாக இருக்கும் என்று நினைத்து தொடர்பு கொள்ளாமல் இருக்கலாம்.
காலம் செல்லசெல்ல "நாம் ஏன் தொடர்பு கொள்ள வேண்டும்..
அவர் நம்மை தொடர்பு கொள்ளட்டுமே" என்ற சிந்தனை உருவாகும்.
மேலும் சிறிது காலம் செல்லும்போது இது மற்றொரு விதத்தில் தீவிரப்படும்.
அதாவது, அவர் நம்மை முதலில் தொடர்பு கொள்ளட்டும்..
பிறகு நாம் பேசுவோம் என்று நினைப்பு இருவரின் மனதிலும் பரஸ்பரம் தோன்றும்.
இங்கு என்ன ஆகிறது? நட்பால் விளைந்த அன்பு வெறுப்பாக மாறுகிறது.
இறுதியில் அவ்விரு நண்பர்களுக்குள் தொடர்பு இல்லாமல் போனதால், நட்பால் விளைந்திருந்த பசுமை நினைவுகள் மறந்து போகிறது.
ஒருவர் மற்றொருவரை மறந்து போகிறார்.
எனவே நட்பு தொடர்ந்து நீடிக்க அடிக்கடி நண்பர்களை தொடர்பு கொள்ளுங்கள்.
நட்பு சிறக்க பத்து பொன் விதிகள்:
1 . ஆனால் நட்பு இருக்கிறதா என்பதை சோதித்துப் பார்க்க சோதனை ஏதும் வைக்காதீர்கள்.
2 . மேலும் நண்பரிடம் உதவி ஏதும் கேட்க நினைத்தால் அவரின் நிலை அறிந்து கேளுங்கள்.
3. நண்பரே குறிப்பறிந்து உதவி செய்தால் அதற்கு நன்றி தெரிவியுங்கள்.
4. ஆனால் அதே நேரத்தில் நாம்தான் அவருக்கு உதவி செய்திருக்கிறோமே என்று அவரிடமிருந்து பிரதி உதவி எதிர்பார்க்காதீர்கள்.
5. நண்பர் உதவவில்லையானால் " அவருக்கு என்ன சூழ்நிலையோ,
கஷ்டமோ தெரியவில்லை?" என்று நினைக்கப் பழகுங்கள்.
6. உதவ முடியாத நிலைக்கு நண்பர் வருத்தம் தெரிவித்தால், அதை ஏற்றுக்கொண்டு பழையபடி நட்பை தொடருங்கள்.
7. நண்பருக்கு கஷ்டம், துன்பம் என்று கேள்விப்பட்டால் அதை அறிந்து முடிந்த உதவி செய்யுங்கள். பக்கத்துணையாக நில்லுங்கள்.
நல் ஆலோசனை நல்குங்கள்.
8 . நண்பர் தன் கஷ்டத்தை முதலில் சொல்லட்டும், பிறகு உதவி செய்யலாம் என்று இருப்பது நட்புக்கு நன்று அல்ல.
9 . அதே போன்று நண்பர்களிடம் சோகத்தை பகிர்ந்து கொண்டால் அது பாதியாகும்.
10 . அவ்வாறே மகிழ்ச்சியை பகிர்ந்து கொண்டால் அது இரட்டிப்பாகும்.
வாழ்க நண்பர்கள் ! வளர்க நட்பு !!


Saturday, 7 January 2017

Takeaways from the Coursera course “Learning how to learn”

   Learning is a lifelong pursuit. An attempt has been made to track the key points from a Coursera course “Learning how to learn” taught by Barbara Oakley, Terrence Sejnowski, Becca judd. The inputs from the course do make an impact on learning to make it more scientific.

Week 1

·   There are two modes of thinking namely

o   Focused mode
o   Diffused mode

  In the focused mode, it is difficult to form neural patterns but in the diffused it is easier to form neural patterns and hence easy to create new ideas. Ideas form through creation of neural pattern in our brain.
  
  Focused mode would be used in a problem solving exercise involving sequential steps, where each steps deliberately leads to subsequent steps.

  Diffused mode involves intuitive linking of seemingly different ideas. Simply, diffused mode of thinking is a place for creativity.

   After a relaxed sleep, diffused mode would be on.

·   Metaphors are powerful techniques to remember things.

·   Using Pomodoro technique one can overcome the habit of procrastination. In Pomodoro technique, one is required to put a concentrated effort for a spell of 25 Minutes, followed by a break.

( Android app on playstore :

Pomodoro App 1

· The more abstract a thing is, the more one needs to practice. Abstract things tend to go off memory easily.

·   After learning go into diffuse mode so that it can settle well.

·   There are two types of memory namely

o Long term memory – This involves activities like recollecting your mother tongue, childhood memory etc...

o Working memory – Holding few ideas in mind to understand a concept, working memory would be in operation.

·   Working memory can hold only four chunks of information during its operation since it has only four slots. Repeating what you learn can help you to absorb all chunks of information in one slot so that the other slots would become free to absorb more.

·   Long term memory is like a storage warehouse. You can store “n” number of items. But you need to revisit frequently to ensure it stays.

·   Practicing 10 times spread over several days is more effective than practicing 10 times in a single day.

·   Sleeping entrenches the concepts you learnt, rehearses understanding and tidies up ideas.

·  Revising what you learnt before sleeping increases the chances of dreaming about it and dreaming about the stuff enhances the understanding of the concept.

· Enriched environment, interacting with new people gives birth new neurons during adulthood.Physical exercise also gives rise to new neurons. Success comes by passion and persistence and not by smartness. -Dr. Sejnowski, Co-instructor of the course.

·   Polyglot Benny Lewis used the following strategy while learning new languages – Learning 6 days and taking 1 full day off and studying 4 weeks and taking 1 full week off.

·  Dr. Bildert says being disagreeable and open to new achievements as symptoms for greater achievement.

Week 2

· When you are stressed you lose your ability to make neural connections, thereby ability to understand things and respond to stimulus.

· Just because you see a concept , understand a concept it doesn’t mean you have actually understood a concept. Contextual understanding – when to use and when not to use - is important.

·  Forming chunks is an effective way of learning. Break the large concept you want to learn into small chunks of information and accommodate in your working memory.

·   Recalling on your own is the right strategy. Revising  from the book just gives the illusion as if you have retained something in your memory.

·   Better practiced you are on a subject, the better is the scope for creativity. ( As how an artist improvises kalpana swaras based on the better understanding of a raga)

·   Luck favours one, who tries.

·   Repeated reading in a single study session is wastage of time and energy.

·  Einstellung is a problem, where repeated practice of a particular way of solving a problem prevents new ideas that could give rise to solve the problem in a way that different from the usually done way. It blocks the pathways for creation of fresh ideas.

·   Interleaving can overcome the problem of Einstellung. In Interleaving, we would switch back and forth between different topics requiring different type of approaches. It also helps in creative new inter-disciplinary ideas. (In an art form like Carnatic too, practicing different ragas in a single practice session would be productive)


Week 3

·   Pay attention to the process of learning rather than the product. Set targets based on process – Eg: I will have to concentrate on learning the next 25 minutes. I won't mind about the end result. Challenge yourself not to mind about the result.

·   People normally  tend to procrastinate out of some cues like responding to text messages while studying, surfing on the internet. Pre-empt such cues by activities like switching off your mobile, putting yourself in a disciplined environment like library etc…

·   A routine of irregularity would beget further irregularity. On the other hand, a routine of being regular would let us being regular in attending our duties. (Remember, Success begets Success)

·  Have a group of studymates, who could encourage you in the process. It would provide a source of inspiration. (Remember “Thaniyoruvan” movie. Actually a syndicate like that could be magically productive. But forming one such association is extremely difficult.)

·   Prepare a weekly list of key tasks at the last day of the previous week.

·   Prepare a daily list of key tasks at the end of the previous  day.

·   Review your weekly list and daily list regularly.

·   Plan your quit time for every day.

·  Challenge yourself with small chunks of the larger thing you want to learn. Not chunking into  smaller chunks would normally obstruct our vision from forming a proper plan.

·    Empirically those who have healthy leisure time outperform those who work on their tasks          restively.

·   Finish off your most disliked task in the morning, when you are fresh.

·   Memory palace technique

    Associating the items to be memorized to specific objects in your mental memory palace.
   
   Read more about it @ https://litemind.com/memory-palace/

·   Your childlike creativity is still inside you. You have to just reach-out to it.

·   Broaden your passions. Don’t restrict yourself to limited things.

Week 4

·   Physical exercises enhance learning like nothing.

·   Some are inherently given with smaller working memory. The up-side of this is they would have better creativity than their counter-parts with greater working memory.

·   Perseverance is the  virtue of less brilliant – Nobel laureate Santiago Ramon y Cajal.

·   Santiago Ramon y Cajal was imprisoned when he was 11 for breaking his neighbour's yard gate. 


·   Changing your thinking in positive ways can alter the inherent deficiencies in your brain.

· Take responsibility for your own learning. Rarely people learn by someone explaining the concept to them.

·   By team work during your study time, you can catch up where you go wrong in your study strategy.
·   In test, start with the toughest problem. But have the courage to steer away and pursue a lighter problem if you think you are moving in wrong. Again pick the tough problem which you left half-way after finishing the lighter problem. Make a progress. Doing this way, switches on diffuse mode and gives room for creative thinking

·   Ways to feel de-stressed during the test.

o Think this test has got to bring the best out of me.

o Deep breathing exercise helps a lot.

o Have alternative career plans.

·   Often you may be convinced that you solved the problem right in a test. At such times, divert your attention for a while and check for errors.